Friends Forever

A great devotional philosopher (don’t ask name, you know I never take credit for holy deeds) has said about friends that “Friends are those who are not our enemies”. Ting….. A big handsome in begin. (Handsome means “hathoda”, wanna know how.?? Log on to http://www.dontlogon.com and if you don't have enough leisure to log on the same, an explanation is here. Handsome = Hand + some = (in Guajarati) Hath + Thoda = (sandhi jodo( its not sindhi jodo ok..??) Hathoda… see, how big handsome I am..!!))

So we were talking about friends. Friends are those who use their all energy just to make you emotionally blackmail only for having a 5Rs. Dabeli and 5Rs. Lassi on daily basis. But I am very lucky that I have friends like DJ and Nildeep who understands me and don’t do such things with me. Friends are those who are so shameless that they never return a small amount like 25 Rs. taken in first year of your college and though it’s one year you have completed, passing your college now. But thanks to god, i have a friend like Darshan who values the friend's money and never ask for a single buck. Friends are those who make a dummy call to a girl and force us to talk her on saying that she is on the line and hearing everything. And they pretend it so nicely that you have no option but to believe that she is indeed on line. But thanks a bunch to god that I have friends like Sadik, Dj, Darshan and Nildeep. I can’t even dream to have such things executed on me by my friends. So lucky I am. Moreover, they continue pretending that she really likes you and finally you get set with that girl in real. It’s like a line from a future best seller and a beautiful ever novel that “In search of believable fiction (that she likes me) I met some unbelievable truth (that she really liked me)”. Well, little complicative, but what to do when you really are the same…!! Use your head and read it again.

Whatever, friends are friends and I love them. Because when you are having (and possibly “doing”) a tedious unexciting boring job and that’s also in a pretty offensive place like Jamnagar, a single day passed with them becomes glucose for your next upcoming months. They F5 your life when you really need to do that. (Don’t get confused, F5 is shortcut key for “refresh” in my keyboard (don’t know about yours)) and by grace of the great almighty, I got so many friends to get myself F5d (here, “d” after F5 is used for its past participial form). (Now using more shortcuts, a line to all my friends) Please be in my life to F2 my world and never alt+F4 from the same, and please come whenever I need your F1. Love you all and really miss you all.

It’s not like that we just had friendship day some days before so I am writing this. I was thinking since long to write about a very special part of my life. My friends. A friend should be thanked for being a friend on regular basis and not only on the friendship day because I believe that,

“Friends are forever and friendship is the best fever”

(last line © mehul)

Jate Jate:

A little attempt cum song cum poem by me dedicated to all my friends.

If you’re with me, I don’t wanna go home tonight,

Let’s roam the whole town, please forget all fight,

Let’s do something new, let's ride out in blue,

Let me hold all your hands and scream so loud,

That I do have friends like you…..!!

I’ll never ever let you go,

I’ll never ever let you be sad,

All says it’s not so good for you though

I’ll be so bad to have you as a friend

I’ll be so bad to have you as a friend….!!

-mehul

A Guitar

“kya kare zindai usko hum jo mile..

Uski jaan kha gaye raat din ke gile..”

I was on way to picnic with my some of family members, and a song was playing in my car with full bass and torturing repeating words that was from movie karzzzz and it was “tanduri nights”. I took remote and changed it to above mentioned song from movie “kaminey”. But my nephew started shouting and other concurred with him and I had to pick up remote again to change it to previous one. Actually when they heard a punch line in my selected song that “meri aarzu kaminee, mere khwab kaminey, and mere ye kaminey, mere wo kaminey…and all” they started laughing and said, rather you keep that “tanduri nights”. And I was unable to make them sense my selected song that it was really saying a lot.

I think I am at the level of that age at which we try to question our life that what you really want from us and life answers slowly sometimes that “I want your life”. You may think “how complicated?” in answer of that “yes, it is and it’s life”. But we have our whole life to solve this complication. And there are so many people around us who have never bothered about what the life is in its real meaning. Just like a dialogue from Krantiveer ”kyu jiye maalum nahi, kyu mare maalum nahi..” Sometimes, I think that why they are afraid of facing their own life. People say life is so hard. But I want to ask them “compare to what?” Life is, in real, the thing to be analyzed. I agree, life is to live, not to analyzed but my sayings is not in that prospect. An analysed life can be lived better than life with dumb heads. When I see people around me, frustrated from life and blaming others, for their own problems, to be responsible for, I really get worried that how they will pass their entire life with the same nature. A confession is here that I don’t do all that I say or write here, rather I can’t. But I try my best to implement my thoughts to my act.

I think one should be, if not more, but little musical in their lives. It makes life so beautiful and ravishing. It’s in our hand to give our lives a meaning. It’s meaningless only if we allow it to be. If life would be a guitar, all strings of guitar are in our hand, you want to play it so that it produces a good melody or you want to put your guitar in show case which is of no use other than impress others. You neglect playing it just because you don’t know how to play it. But for having excellence in any task, there should always be a learning period. We have been given childhood to learn our lives and be matured. So if you have learned your guitar well, you can, for sure, produce a lovely melody of life and have different tone as well, like rock, solemn, romantic, and sad. All those have the respective meaning of life.


So better late then never, catch your guitar and strike your striker to the string so beautifully thatevery stroke gives a lovely chord and make a song of your life. And remember, if all string of guitar would have same size, you won’t ever be able to produce any tune. Just like that accept all phases, no matter good or bad, in your life to have it sound properly. And one more thing that never allow your guitar to be detuned by your self. Tuning the guitar is the first step to learn it. Hope you got my point.

Jate Jate:

A song written in my college days..

Gaa le tu geet jaraa jivan ke,

Chhed le tu, taar jaraa is man ke,

Kya rakha hai yu, mar mar ke jine me,

Ji le tu yaar jaraa, yu tan ke..

Na badle hai hum, na badlenge hum,

Badal sakte hai, saare nazare..

Chamke chand sa hum, na taro se kam,
Zamin ke hum hai, saare sitaare..

Khoj le apni kismat, ik tare me..

Chamka de wo tara tu suraj banke..

Gaa le tu…..!!

-mehul

Music available in the same unavailable store mentioned in previous post.

Stop downloading songs from net and stop piracy, buy the original CDs.

A Little Contribution

Dear son,

Since last few years I am not feeling well. I have consulted so many doctors but all are giving same reason for my health. And I have constantly told you about it. There is some viral attack and they have entered my blood so badly that they are obstructing me to grow more. You know which they are. But still, to remind you those viruses are poverty, corruption, crime, violence and so many other factors which are not so good for my health. I need not to list out all the diseases as you will be hurt to know that you are also responsible for some of them. And people spreading such diseases are omnipresent so it’s not in my hand to stop or control them now.

When I see around I find thousands of preventable deaths that occur every day from hunger and poverty-related diseases in my lap. And my lap is not enough humble to endure the burden of these much blood.

And the care taker you have assigned for me is Untrustworthy, Corrupted, and Dishonest. For your information, he is not taking any short of care of mine and only inducing the awful things around me. Please save me from such demons.

I need you.

Yours loving mother,

Bharat Maa.

An all time favorite dialogue from one of my favorite movies, Rang De Basanti, “koi bhi desh perfect nahi hota, use perfect banana padta hai”. We all think that what will be changed if only I will change some habit that can be hygienic to nation? We think that if they are not changing their selves why should I? And we find the excuse to have a delight occasion to betray our country for a small ease of getting things done by using any dangerous weapon like corruption. One another line from movie “halla bol”, “agar aaj tum apne padosi pe julm hote hue dekh rahe ho, aur kuchh nahi kar rahe ho, to taiyar rehna, agli baari tumhari hai..” that means if your neighbor is being beaten by some ruffian and you are just watching and doing nothing then be ready, because its your turn now. Please do whatever you can if you go through such situation.

Our people are waiting for Lord Krishna to rebirth on the earth and annihilate all sins. But look inside once, it’s a feeling that is named as lord Krishna. Just imagine if every person of our nation thinks like the way of having lord Krishna in him what can be the picture of our country.Nation do not expect every one to be like perfect one, that needs it, but we can contribute little to it in any way you like. Just for example, never give bribe to traffic police. Because I think it’s the most illogical and idiotic thing you are doing. You give him bribe because you have not worn a helmet that means” you are giving him money for not keeping your self safe?” This was just an example; there are so many ways by which you can help the nation. So give your Little Contribution to our gorgeous nation “INDIA”.

Jate Jate:

I am writing this reply to my bharat maa as my little but an effective contribution.

Dear maa,

Whether your other sons are with you or not, I am and will always with you to protect you from such demons. I am not promising to fight like your some brave sons like soldiers fighting for your honor at border but I promise not to be corrupted for anything in life and give my little contribution for making you happy. Because I know if I fail to make you happy, I will never be the same. Jai Hind

Lots of love,

Your loving son

I Didn't Know I Could Do That

Let me warn you that this will be my one of serious posts so if you have decided to get bored with my fresh ideas, go for it. It happens in life that you just try and you do the things for which you perhaps were never sure you could really do the same (advised to take it in positive manner). I will justify this by taking some examples of mine.

Honestly speaking, I never thought of being a mechanical engineer. Actually unknowingly I have decided that I will not choose a way of my life but my life will choose a way for me (how one can decide a thing unknowingly..Neither “two” nor “three” can decide. But I did. Well, I am simply complicative..). I still remember conversation with my company HR manager. He made me realize a very interesting fact. He told that suppose you are standing on an anonymous way. And let’s name that anonymous way as your life. Now that will be you who will decide that whether you want to pick a bus which will reach you at your desired station and the one you want to ride in or a bus that will come and pick you up and will drop you wherever it is planned to go and no matter where you want to be. In my case the bus picked me and I travelled where the driver of the bus drove me. Some people call that driver their destiny but I call it indiscipline of life.

(Well, on hearing so many times the name of buses and all, you might think that I have applied for GSRTC, but for that I beg your pardon, it’s just for an example and nothing else.)

Now here the destiny factor comes that the bus by which u have been picked up is pretty or not (no issue if "you" choose the bus). Luckily mine one was. Yes, the bus in which I travelled was quite pretty to pass through, and believe me until I got my mech engg completed I didn’t know I could do that. And that also so nicely that in second last semester I was selected in an MNC by successfully passing 3 different kinds of tests and leaving behind a huge numbers of students of my class (including class toppers and my good friends). Again being frank, I didn’t know I could do that.

In the same bus I mentioned before I mean in my college time, I met some amazing friends who gave a new look to my bus I mean my life. Some of them did it with music, while some did it with laugh. One another thing that I didn’t know and I could do is music. A humble need for this kind of stuff is mind sensitivity and as said in last post I was an owner of an over sensitive mind. Moreover, DJ and praising of other D member gave me that confidence to compose and write songs. Sometimes you have potential to do or get the things done but all you need is a boosting power. If you get the same, you do unexpected. And I am doing the same. I started composing and writing the song and I am doing well (I think so, rest you decide when you listen them). And I really didn’t know I could do that.

So you guys too. Put the medal on the pedal, press the accelerator and make the history..!!

Well, at last I am little confused and I don’t know that is it good to be this much open in open? I mean I would have said that I knew that I can do these things and all. But my heart says hhmmmmm…. Friends know more than us about us…!! Ri8.?

Jate jate:

Badnaami ki duniya me hum, naamchin naachiz hai..

Koi kaheta begairat aur bewafaa to koi kaheta badtamiz hai..

Duniya ne kahaa aur hum bhi maana k hai hum bade nikamme,

Par aapse milaa to ye jaana ke hum to bade kam ki cheez hai…

First One Of Mine And Only Mine

Just like every successful writer I also don’t know from where to start. I mean I am not successful writer, but I don’t know from where to start. See, I kept saying that I don’t know from where to start and I have already started. It looks complicative no? Yes it is. It’s simply complicative. My heading. And inconvenience is regretted but in my first blog I’ll only talk about myself. Let me start it from my heading. It’s Simply Complicative. And being very honest (that I never be usually) it’s not given by me but by DJ. When I asked him to suggest me a name as my heading, he thought (that he never does usually) for a while and after giving his typical look with so much effort on his effortless mind (just kidding don’t mind), he declared that title. But I think it’s only best suited on me. Don’t know why but it is.

Well, as I warned you before that in this very first blog of mine, you will not find anything except me. So starting from my nature, I am more than too much sensitive. And due to that I attach with inanimate things like my room, things like pen, cell, vehicle, watch, note books, file page, mouse of my lappy, and so on. In nutshell, any things with which I have spend some time or used it. At the time of leaving it or on loosing it, I feel so bad. So so bad. I still can’t decide whether it is good for me or not. I think my heart wants me to be childish forever. But to be mature in life is so much crucial so that the evilly world around you do not misuse your credulity and your sensitivity. You can imagine that with non-living things I am this, then with people? Well, there are some positive sides also like you become a creative person when you are matured physically but immature mentally or rather you say heartily. I have some thoughts on “maturity” but I will put it in the picture in some next blogs.

Ok then Aaj ke liye itna hi…!, good day or good night. Depends on when u r reading this Have it accordingly. Keep reading and commenting my simply copmlicative blogs and I promise I’ll not let you get bored reading the same. Take care.

Milte hi ek chhote se break ke baad,

tab tak ke lie gud bye, seeyaa, sayonara, astalavalisa, sabba khair, humma humma, bhupa bhupa, buja raiko ritina.

Note1: you will find a “jate- jate” column in my every blog as a closing of it. Hope u’ll enjoy it.

Note2: finding the meaning of some doubtful words at last of whishing good bye is worthless.

Jate jate:

latest song by me.

Ruk gayaa, ab jo tu…!!

Juk gayaa, ab jo tu…!!

Payega, kaise tu, jo hai teri wo, manzil ko…!!

Chahe aaye lakho kaante, ful sabhi ko pyar ke baante..

Sadaa rahe muskata chehra, khaake sau takdir ke chaante..

Aisaa kar tu kuchh naa laage, chaand aur suraj tere aage..

Raahe ban jaaye humraahi, manzil tere pichhe bhaage..

Yu na haar, ab himmat tu, re bande…!!

(tud tud tududududu dhu dhu dhu dhus thhhsssss….)

(Sorry, its music. Couldn’t control putting that)

(Full song available in store, though store is not available)